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Why did you start your business? It’s not a trick question. Most folks will immediately say, “To make money,” but there is usually another reason lurking beneath that slick answer.  Maybe you want to be able to provide your children with a great education and extracurricular activities; perhaps you’d like to retire with a nice nest egg.  Maybe you started your business because you truly believe that your product or service can improve people’s lives.  

It’s an important questions to ponder. Why? Because  the underlying reason you started your business, not the dollar signs, is what will keep you motivated to slog through all of the terror and confusion that’s associated with being a business owner.  Whether you having a successful business is to benefit you, your family or the world, you know that failure is not an option for you.

But if you’re like me, you may have started your business and then quickly realized that being an entrepreneur was no joke. You learned that having an idea or even a good product or service is not enough to create a financially viable business.  In the beginning you may have  poured money and time into your business without generating a dime of income. You may have also become overwhelmed by all of advice and strategies that are being touting as the “answer” to developing a money-making business.

After spinning my wheels for a bit, I’ve realized that regardless of the “system” or “blueprint” that is being discussed there are three (3) main components to building a sustainable business. I caution that these are not quick fixes to instant riches, think of them instead as building blocks.

Planning: Call it goal setting if you like, but it boils down to deciding what you want/need to achieve within a given time frame. Do you want to launch a new product? Write a book? Get invited to speak at a professional conference? Open a an online or brick and mortar store? Clarity of purpose is important. Why is this goal important to the success of your business? It’s also important to set a deadline for the attaining the specific goal. Deadlines gives us humans a needed sense of urgency. I can’t forget this— You need to plan how much money you want/need to generate a month or per quarter.  I personally learned the hard way that real businesses don’t run on a “I’ll make do with what I can make”  basis. As a solopreneur, your income is tied to your revenue projections and your calculations on how you can achieve that dollar figure.

Execution: Basically this involves mapping out the action steps that you need to take to support your goal(s).  If you are launching a new product, your actions steps may include: doing some market research; writing or recording content; interviewing experts in the field; investigating vendors who can manufacture the product.  If you plan to make $5,000 a month, then you need to determine how many units of your product(s) you need to sell or how many clients, you will need to achieve that income goal. Essentially each goal can be broken down into a series of smaller action steps.

Marketing: It’s how you regularly educate your target audience about your product or service. Most of the experts agree that solopreneurs should be spending between 2-4 hours per day on marketing activities.  It sounds like a lot of time, but what’s the point of working to refine your product or service when you have no clients? Marketing activities include: creating new offerings for your target audience (products, tele-classes, programs, services); researching and following-up on opportunities; connecting with your clients.  Client contact can include one or more of the following: sending out regualar blog  posts (written, audio or video); sending out a monthly e-newsletter; interacting daily via social media such as Twitter or Facebook.

Mastering the building blocks of business development is critical to your business. After you’ve got these principles down, then you can move on to the delving into the shiny, exciting bells and whistles.

Here are some related posts that you may find helpful:

Solopreneurs and Freelancers: Do You Have A Business Improvement Plan?

Chris Guillebeau’s Annual Review: Overview and Outline (It’s not too late to do the exercise)  

Danielle LaPorte’s The Secret to Self-Promotion: Radiance and the Facts, Jack

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More Sex Can Improve Your Life & Business

by admin on November 30, 2009

3580285233_04f5ee886fCan having a better sex life improve your business? The answer is probably yes.   Marie Forleo, author and creator of Rich, Happy and Hot mentoring program for women believes that your business may suffer from your lack of sex. In an article titled, “Is Your Sex Life Affecting The Success of Your Business?” Marie says, ” A healthy sex life is essential to being a vibrant, passionate, and fully self-expressed human being and therefore, essential to being a truly successful entrepreneur. After all, we start our businesses not only to earn a great living, but to make a difference in the world.  And that can only happen when we are operating at our full potential.  A healthy sex life feeds us on an emotional, physical and psychological level and simply leaves us more vibrant and engaged in our businesses and lives.”

Perhaps it’s the Whore/Madonna thing but “good” mothers don’t talk about themselves as sexual beings.  For many women once they have children, being a mother becomes their paramount role.  The woman who enjoyed sex disappears and is replaced by a dutiful mother who channels all of her energies into her children.  Sex is no longer about her pleasure or the opportunity to create a sacred union with her man—it’s reduced to being another unwanted obligation. 

Why do so many mothers believe that reveling in their sexuality is incompatible with good parenting?

If you believe that sex is all about pleasing your man, then in the midst of raising your children and building your business it’s easy for you to push his needs to the back burner. You may feel that you have the ability to be a good mother or even a good entrepreneur, but as a woman you may not feel up to par. Perhaps you’re heavier than you’d like or you’ve been lax with your personal grooming. You don’t feel sexy so you’re anxious about getting undressed and making love with your man.  Although you can use sex to connect with your partner, essentially sex is an expression of your own life force. If women represent love on earth, then it stands to reason that if you deny your sexuality you’re also denying  the desires of your soul.

Generally, working mothers who are stressed out by too many demands, too little support and too little “me-time” are not that interested in sex.  However, you can’t have a great life if you’re ignoring your sexual yearnings.  Are you weakening your marital/relationship bond by not connecting with your partner on a regular basis? Do you have the relaxed state of mind that you need to nurture your children and to run your business? A sexually fulfilled woman is happier and brings that joyful spirit to her parenting, relationship and work.

7 Ways Working Mothers Can Get Their Sexy Back

1. Buy New Lingerie. The feel of good quality silk or satin on your body will remind you that you are a sexual being.

2. Exercise. Moving your body at least 30 minutes a day will get your blood pumping and your juices flowing.  Most important your body imagewill improve as your shed unwanted pounds. Don’t have access to a gym? Why not try a pilates, yoga or belly dancing DVD?

3. Get a new hairstyle.  A new hairstyle can make you feel fresh and young. Look at magazines and bring your hairdresser pictures of hair do’s that you like. Opt for a hairstyle that’s both fashionable and functional.

4. Have a spa day. Can’t afford a real spa, then carve out a few hours at home to luxuriate in the bath and to give yourself a facial, manicure and pedicure.

5. Go on a trip with your significant other, without the kids. A romantic trip, even if it’s only an overnight hotel will give you the privacy and freedom to rekindle your sexual flame.

6. Get a new scent. The power of scent is greater than you think.  Test some perfumes at your local department store. See what scent make you feel sexy.

7. Spruce Up Your Bedroom. Your bedroom should be a retreat for romance and for rest. Clear out the clutter (including kids toys). Buy some new bedding and add touches like scented candles and plants.

You may also be interested in:

Mamas: Let’s Talk About Sex

Why Self-Care is Important for Working Mothers

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